The Plural Thing: Spiritually Preparing for Your Soul Mate is unadulterated, hard-hitting, tough-loving, no-nonsense truth. With Biblical principles, keen insight, self-disclosure and candidness Grosvenor provides guidance to those struggling with sexual soul ties, an adulterous relationship, low self-esteem and have resigned themselves to settling for second-best or are just in love with being in love and finally want the freedom to receive God’s blessings for their lives. The Plural Thing: Spiritually Preparing for Your Soul Mate set advanced readers on FIRE and has eagerly been made recommended reading by church groups and singles ministries across the United States. This inspirational book for singles will foster energetic discussion and is appropriate for Christians of all ages.
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My entire life I’ve known so many women like me who only wanted a loving relationship. A relationship the way God created Adam and Eve to be in the foundations of creation. I knew so many women who were tired of doing and searching just for the sake of looking. Women who were going to gatherings and visiting other churches because they’d heard it through the grapevine that it’s where all the cute available men were. These were intelligent women who were just sick and tired of having no one to bond with, no one to grow with, no one to tell their secrets to, no one who they can pick up and go for a leisurely drive with, no one they could dream with, and no one they could trust with their feelings.
They were tired of pretending not to feel emotions just because people said that they should learn how to cope with singlehood. “Singlehood is good,” they’re told, “it gives you time to work for God.” They weren’t lying. Being single and working for God is good, but at about 11:30 p.m. on a nippy November night, when the news goes off and you patter to the kitchen and feed the cat, have a sip of orange juice from the container and can’t help but hear the winds whipping through the trees—who themselves have lost their leaves and stand naked before God, but still have each other, it’s a little hard to comprehend the waiting and patience of singlehood.
I know singles are tired. I know that they are weary of waiting for love to come and see about them. I can assure you that because of the harsh realities of life many of them also have cold feet and nervously anticipate when it’s the perfect time to reveal themselves to that significant other in their life (if there is one). I’m sure they’re tired of holding back and acting like they don’t need a man in front of people (I was). And I trust that they are “oh so tired” of sitting home alone letting the enemy convince them that nobody wants them and that they’ll die a spinster. The deep folk scold you and tell you, “focus on Jesus,” as if to daydream of love occasionally is a sin. I know all of these lonely people, because they were me. Although I looked in the mirror and told myself I was enough, I still yearned for a kiss, a hug, a hand to hold and a smile that mirrored mine. Singles. I know these segregated folks. They have a heart full of carefully crafted plans for their mate—when they finally find them. They try to go on with their daily lives with a business as usual attitude, but who wants to live with feelings all bottled up? Who wants to feel things they can never say to anybody? Who wants to always be a bridesmaid but never get to walk that rose petal strewn aisle with the handsome groom waiting at the altar to usher them into love and forever?
I know these women. They are part of all of us that we may even deny until death sucks the last breath out of us. These women are hiding behind jobs, church committees, hobbies and children, but they exist. They are me. They are you. When the pastor does an altar call for the lonely and broken, it is you who sits like a magnet glued to the pew because you’d rather be tarred and feathered than think of yourself as broken and lonely, and expose it to the whole church? Besides you’re probably thinking, we’re all adults, shouldn’t we be above all the desperation? You’d think.
Desperation. I know about it. Yes, I’ve been there. It is for that reason alone that I want you to trust that God has more for you. Now I’m not preaching and teaching for you to get all stirred up and walk around telling your friends that, “God has more for me.” He does, but you have to do more than say it, you’ve got to act on it!
A handsome face is fine, but when it comes to love, what we should all be looking for is someone who will celebrate us. Doesn’t that sound blessed? Celebrate us, just like a grand occasion. That’s what we need, someone who sees us how God sees us, in all of our glory and perfection. We need someone who we can hold in our arms and feel God’s purpose emanating for us through them, connecting us in the Spirit for eternity. It may seem simple, but the reality of that manifesting in some of our lives is extremely far fetched. It’s far fetched because we are looking in the wrong places. It’s hard because we are not ready. It’s difficult because we are not complete.
God created us to worship. The grass and trees grow upward in celebration of being created. They thank God with their extremities raised to the sky. We as humans ought to thank God like this too, daily, not just when we’re in a good mood or only when we get things our way, but all the time. As humans of course, we understand that we are not like the trees or the grass. We have more distractions in our lives that take our focus off of God. We aren’t like nature that can spend the day worshipping because their only worry is the sun, wind and rain. But worship is so very important. It’s vital to our relationship with Him. It is our connection to the God of Heaven. And when we don’t have a strong spiritual connection to God, everything else in our lives is meaningless and will fall short. When we don’t have a strong spiritual connection we won’t necessarily care if we find someone who will celebrate us; we’ll take whatever we can get, and that’s a lonely road. And the sad truth is that you haven’t been lonely until you are in a relationship and are still lonely!
For most of us, having just anybody will do. We figure that we have already allowed ourselves to be overworked, underpaid, unappreciated, unrewarded, unmoved, stepped on, walked over, unchanged and misunderstood. So, we feel we might as well snuggle up with a trash bag too. Garbage. Even though we say we matter, most of us don’t act like we are worth very much. We sell ourselves short and spend our lives guesstimating. We need to get it together. We were not born and created in the image of God to be a doormat. “And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created him; male and female created he them.” (Genesis 1:26-27 KJV)
We spend too much time worrying about other people and what they think of us or pondering what they are doing with the knowledge they have about us. You worrying doesn’t change anything. If they want to talk let them talk. They can’t change the purpose God has for your life with their gossip and backbiting. Leave it alone and let God fight your battles. We’ve got to get consistent. We want to be like the next sister as we work on our patience today and as she works on her humility next week, then we will too because that’s how she got her last husband. But you see, the qualities that we need to have are the qualities that please God, and most of us are sorely lacking. We smile and pray, but our lives aren’t beautifying, complimenting or glorifying God in the least, or a reflection of Him to boot.
We need more time with the Creator so that we can bask in His presence and find the love that is deep within us. Sure you can tell somebody off and tongue lash with the best of them, but having a big mouth is totally different from loving yourself and being a complete and fulfilled person. We are hardheaded, we don’t listen, and even though our mistakes precede our subsequent choices, we still refuse to see the signs.
When it comes to relationships, we are fleshly and superficial people. We didn’t get this way overnight. It’s a process. We learned to be this way. For instance, most of us wouldn’t take home bruised fruit from the market if they were giving it away free by the basketful. We want perfection. We want something that will make every head turn and every eye envy what we have. We seek attention and are desperate for the approval of the negative, moody and scornful people around us. The reason most of us are judged by what we have is because that’s how we judge other people. We allow our self worth to come from what and who we have instead of who and what God has created us to be and have. We let our outside dominate our Spirit, and that’s not Godly or productive. We have to renew our minds. The bible says, “And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God,” (Romans 12:1).
We’ve got to get that God kind of thinking deep down on the inside of us. That’s the bottom line. When we do then we will cease to be so frivolous and superficial about the things in our lives. Yes, I know it sounds preachy and “same old, same old,” but we’ve got to make an internal change before there’s an external change or else we’ll be heading down one lonely road of destruction and doom. Garbage in, garbage out! Like the song says, without God, “it’s like driving down Pike’s Peak 90 miles an hour in the dark with the headlights off;” a road with no directions, and no real destination.
But, when you get God down on the inside and feed your Spirit daily with the Word that was designed to sustain you in the first place, the power, joy and purpose of God will first nourish, then sustain and finally, emanate from you, then you will draw someone unto you that isn’t impressed with the fact that your skirt is above your knee or that you have a house in Briarcliff. He will love you for the “you” God has gleaned.
So many people want the relationship first and God second. It doesn’t work that way. God is a jealous God (Exodus 20:5). Matthew 6:21 says, “where your treasure is there will your heart be also.” Is your focus a man or God? 1 Corinthians 7:23 says, “ye are bought with a price; be ye not servants of men.” God first. He’s bought you with a price. He died for you. And it will do us all some additional good while we are getting our act together to realize that this entire world we are living in is spiritual. Everything, from our thoughts to the reason we do or don’t do things—it’s all spiritual. And in this spiritual world, when you feed the flesh, listen here, the spirit gets weak and stares at you like a rabid dog that only wants a bite of some truth to fill is so it doesn’t die of malnourishment and then cease to exist. Feed your Spirit!
The flesh on the other hand is like a putrid cancer that will afflict your whole body if it’s allowed to dominate. When you feed the Spirit the flesh gets weak. You need to put your cancerous flesh on a hunger strike until it is emaciated, non-responsive, and then keep it that way. Stop entertaining the flesh. Stop indulging it in every fanciful whim. The flesh wants you to call this one, go here, do this with him, but SO WHAT! “Whatsoever things are pure, think on these things,” (Philippians 4:8). In this world where it seems that everyone is doing whatever they want, with whomever they want, being accountable to no one, ask yourself, who’s in control anyway? The Spirit of the flesh? Truth be told, to be effective and claim the promises of heaven we have to crucify our flesh daily. No, not just on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, and every leap year, but daily! It will try but the flesh can’t rule you. You can’t allow it to rule you because if you do it will own you.
We as elect men and women of God need to stop getting sidetracked. Some of us are too easy to sidetrack for our own good, and it takes the Devil no effort at all to lure us. We fall willingly into his traps over and over again. We can walk down the street with a purpose, a right mind and a bus transfer, and then a strong wind can come along and have us off course, out in left field behind a bowling alley getting our lust quenched. When we’re done we hurry home to cook dinner, then head out to choir practice as if nothing happened.
When some of us see a man we lose our footing. We daydream and indulge in our minds about the experiences we’ve had and how it felt, all the while wondering where he is now. We need to stop entertaining ourselves by looking lustfully at men who are so pretty that they ought to be in a department store with a price tag marked “off limits.” We also need to stop labeling our sexual cravings love. Labels peel off. Just because you label it love doesn’t mean that it won’t be uncovered for what it really is—a filthy LUST!
Our lives are full of envy. Relationships are no different. Now I know you’ll stand up and protest, declare to the hills that you don’t have an envious bone in your body, but the evidence is clear. When you don’t want something until someone else has it, that’s envy sister. When you see the enjoyment of it all on their faces and scrunch up your nose because you are void of this thing, your are coveting, it’s obvious. You smile for your sister in her face, then you go home and plot about how yours will be bigger, shinier and higher priced. That’s envy plain and simple and it’s a pathetic practice and rotten to the core!
I mean, life could be so simpler. We just have to be obedient. We really ought to be held accountable for our prejudiced cravings and stop trying to be showpieces too. We don’t want the items on the lover shelves. That’s the bargain basement stuff. We don’t want what’s within our reach. That’s the cheap stuff, that’s the stuff that offers no real challenge or struggle to acquire. When we wear, eat or drive the cheap stuff it doesn’t shout “you’ve made it!” We want the doctors and lawyers for husbands because we’ve been told that’s the good life. That includes summers in Spain and a villa in the hills. Money will be no object. We want prestige and acclaim because it’s what everyone else has or is striving for. We want it because heads will turn if we acquire it, and these knowledgeable men with their college degrees know this and some of them line these women up and use them one by one because they know these transparent women are so materialistic and shallow enough to fall for it just to say they have someone.
The flesh always causes more trouble than it’s worth. It’s not about status. The earlier on in life you learn this, the better off you will be. Don’t let status dictate who you marry. I’m telling you it’s not worth it. It’s not worth it. It’s not worth it. Women marry medical school residents in hopes of living the good life, only to find out that he has to spend the next ten years of their lives paying off his student loans. Wives help put their husbands through law school only for him to run off with a paralegal. It isn’t right, but nothing is guaranteed when you go chasing after status. Let God lead you. Renew your mind. Tomorrow is not promised either. We can all be in the clouds standing before God tomorrow giving account for what we’ve done with our lives today. Do you want “chasing down a doctor to marry” to be what you tell God you’ve been doing your entire life while your gifts laid idle and you failed to convert a single soul?
Single isn’t always fun or fair. Yes, it’s a lonely road, we understand that, but the truth is that it doesn’t matter how you got single. Whether it’s because of abandonment, divorce, death, or your seemingly perpetual singleness in a quest for a suitable mate, grasp these concepts because we’re all in it together.
First of all, we have to see our potential relationships through the eyes of God. That’s step number one. Lonely but not alone; grasp that because with God on your side you’ll never walk a lonely road again. He’ll be right there with you teaching and instructing you. To be without God is to be lost on a road with no map. Ask anyone who’s been lost. It’s no fun not knowing where you are or where you’re going. You have to ask directions and you are at the mercy of whomever you request assistance from. All you can do is pray that they don’t send you down the seedy side of town and have you out of gas by the side of the road while the neighborhood vagrants are pawing you and the hustlers are stripping your car down to its frame. Get God and let Him lead you.
Okay, what does God really have to do with relationships you ask? Everything. Sure some of you think that God is in your walk, you say “praise Him” and “hallelujah” and you are free to choose who you want to be with. You do honestly have that right, but when you end up with something that robs you blind, steals your car and leaves you an emotional wreck, remember, it was your choice. Trust God or trust the Devil. That’s your choice too, but you have to stop being so childish about the Spirit realm, this isn’t patty cake! We need to stop thinking that the relationships we have with people are separate from God. It’s connected! That’s why we were created, to worship and have an interactive relationship with the Creator. You need to think in terms of this fact, “If God doesn’t supply your mate, who will?” See? I can sense that picture coming into focus for you now.
That’s why we have got to feed ourselves, get fat on the Word of God and let Him finish His perfect work in us, because if God doesn’t choose your mate, the enemy will. And who wants to spend the rest of their life with a mate that the Devil has chosen? Sleeping with the enemy? That can be hell right here on earth! And that’s totally counterproductive too because we need to be all we can be for the Army of the Lord while we’re here on earth. We don’t need a mate who stunts our growth and thwarts our purpose and calling. We don’t need someone who tears us apart and waters down our belief. You can’t even get along with each other behind closed doors and then you’re expected to go out in public and be effective soul-winners? It doesn’t work like that.
See, the thing is that who you are determines who you will attract. It’s the truth. Even if you don’t believe it, it’s still the truth anyway. Just because you dress up all pretty doesn’t mean you feel pretty on the inside. There are many genuinely beautiful women with serious esteem issues. What you think about yourself is what’s real. It’s a spiritual thing. Everyone has a Spirit, and depending on where you are spiritually, will also determine who you’ll attract and inevitably end up with. I’ve heard people say that they’re a bum-magnet. They’re right. If your Spirit is weak and crying out for any kind of attention, you will draw the most unsavory characters to you. This manipulating Spirit will come into your life because your flesh called it unto you, and he’ll be there in your life with your permission, walking all over you and won’t even have the common courtesy to remove his shoes. Seek the Father. Let Him finish His work in you. We aren’t born complete. We may be legally able to vote or marry once we graduate from high school, but we don’t spiritually mature at eighteen. And until God changes some things in us, and we grow up spiritually, what are some of us going to do with a man anyway?
We want what we see our friends and sisters with, and clench our teeth as our sister confess how delightful their love life is going. I know because I’ve kicked myself in my spiritual babyhood for not always being as happy as I should have been for my spiritual sisters. But we want a man, that’s our excuse to do, say and act any kind of way. We already know how will we entertain this man we want after we take him down off of his high priced shelf. We have it planned and are ready to perform to the hilt for him at a moments notice. But, is that what we are here for? To perform like a show horse so a man will pick us? Are we going to envy and compete with our sisters forever? Are we willing to have a man at any cost?
Some of us pay the price for having a man by living in sin. Some of us can’t snag his last name but figure at least our babies can. We need to look in the mirror and hear the mocking laughter. The enemy is making a mockery of you and your faith. Don’t you hear him? He’s saying, “she can’t even see the blessing, I’ve clouded her vision. She’s looking to the left when her God has something for her on the right. I’ve got her now. My plan is working.” We need the full armor of God, Ladies, enough of the backstabbing and double-talking. Women of God should never do that. We have no business “keeping” a man either. You should not have to pay his car note and buy him clothes just to keep him around or convince him to even want to be bothered with you. It distorts the whole order of things. He’ll end up being the woman in that relationship and then that brings on a whole onslaught of other problems that toys with God’s perfect order of relationships. “A man findeth a wife.” Get it right and stop trying to twist the scriptures to read “a wife findeth a man”. The bible is clear. Let God handle it. Cast your cares on Him. “He’s Able,” isn’t just a song…it’s truth! He sees the whole picture anyhow.
You know it may be harsh but, in this day and age it needs to be because it’s pathetic what some of us will do for what we label love, especially those of us in the church. Women in church have no business getting emotionally excited every time a new single man joins the church. You are not there for that. Yes rejoice for his soul but nothing else. “You got the last one, this one is mine,” is not something that a woman of God should ever say or think. And the dreadful thing is that nowadays you find that a man can tell a woman point blank. “I don’t want you,” or “I’m not the one for you,” yet she wipes the mud off her face and keeps coming back again and again overindulging herself in humiliation. To some women “no,” means “try harder.” But the whole while the Devil has got her all tied up in a neat little bow and she can’t function, witness to a lost soul or satisfy her own basic spiritual needs because she’s emotionally tangled up, and the only thing that can free her is getting closer to God. But she can’t see that it’s God she needs because her emotional appetite for a man is on overdrive. So, instead of praying for her own deliverance she’s on her knees begging God for a man that’s not even hers.
We can’t even be blessed by the sermon coming forth on Sunday because we are so busy checking the men out in our peripherals. We don’t know whether we are coming or going. It’s truly sad and truly unfortunate. We hold on to men who don’t love us, don’t love God and could care less for our kids. We are afraid to let go of any man we latch onto for fear of spending endless nights crying, beating yourself up and thinking that it could have been you marrying him if you would have just held on a month more. If you had put up with his mess one more year you could have been Mrs. So and So. Get over it! Let her have him! That’s not love. If he married her four weeks after you left him, he was gone from the relationship you thought the two of you were having long before that. Love will not have you second-guessing yourself. Love confirms and reaffirms what you already know in your Spirit. Learn to look at love from a God point of view. Would God stand you up? Would God lay you down before taking your hand in marriage? Why do you accept any less from a man? Because he’s human? That’s no excuse!
Soul mates. I’m sure I’ve got your attention now. We’ve heard the term enough to know that thinking of our soul mate should make us blissfully happy. We’ve heard that if we find our soul mate, our journey is complete, fluffy clouds, harps and La La Land awaits. Honey, I hate to be the one to break it to you, but there is no such place. We’ve heard that if we find our soul mate, then we have found the missing piece, the rib in us is reconnected to our Adam. We are whole. That’s what we’ve heard, but we aren’t sure. We don’t know. We are out of touch. We let our mind dwell on earthly things so much so that the heavenly things of God elude us.
Philippians 4:8 says “whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.” And we listen, just until the sermon is over. We want to do it our way, plain and simple. We have our minds made up before the benediction. We believe that we know what we want better than God does. We daydream and create scenarios in our minds of how our perfect man will come to us. We lie on the train tracks of life waiting for the virile gentleman to come and rescue us and pick up our hankie. God is taking too long. But everyday we learn something new. And today ladies, we are learning that you need to ask God for strength so you can get up off of those train tracks before a train comes and runs your over!
Life is a learning process and here is a lesson for you. It’s a tough lesson, so listen up. You may have to repeat it out loud to yourself or write it down on a piece of paper and hang it our your desk at work because you might not get it the first time, but here we go; it’s not the man that makes you complete, it’s God. Too simple for you? I’ll break it down because God is not the author of confusion. We are born with the potential to be whole, it is our connection to God and the work He does in us that completes the process. We aren’t half of a person walking around looking for a missing piece or chasing a rib like some theories will lead you to believe.
The word says that, “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh,” (Genesis 2:24). United, meaning there are two separate things being brought together in unity. “They two shall become one flesh,” (Ephesians 5:31). That means that God has called us to be two whole individuals going into a relationship, and then when we marry we become one in the Spirit. We don’t lose our identity or become a shadow to each other. We are still two individuals, but we are one in the Spirit. Some of us just got that revelation. It’s new to us because we’ve never been told. The fact of the matter is that it doesn’t matter how long it takes for you to get it, as long as you finally do, that’s all God’s concerned with.
We thought and have been taught and misinformed that we were to be ladies, dainty and feminine, drop a hankie and wait around coyly as someone gentlemanly comes to recover it for us. Even the Proverbs 31 woman does more than that! We were instructed to learn to cook, fold the linens, dust, clean and raise the children. We were taught to seek a man that has his financial situation intact and when we are joined together with him we would then have a balance of femininity and financial stability, meaning his half plus our half equals the whole, complete with somebody to pay all the bills while we change the diapers and make the casseroles and soufflés. That is wrong thinking. That’s not what God said. That’s why before marriage and unfortunately after the divorce you have so many out of touch woman who don’t even know how to write a simple check. They don’t know what a 401k plan is and don’t even have a clue as to how to calculate their assets. A Proverbs 31 woman rises early to see to her house and set things in order for the day, while some of us can’t even manage to roll out of bed before 10 o’clock just because we have a day off. Come on now!
We need to be women of balance. We should strive to be complete and whole in God, not because society expects it, but because that is what God expects. We have to be able to run our own lives. We can’t hang our hopes on finding a man. Our life starts at birth not at the altar where we say, “I do.” We have to live and learn as we live. Life is to prepare us for His service. What is your purpose in life? How can you serve Him if you aren’t whole? We aren’t supposed to tuck our dreams away in our hope chest and leave them unwatered until the honeymoon. Our dreams start the day we can conceive them not the minute our 20/20 vision can spot a man.
Life is a journey, but we can look so long and hard at the road of life that we can’t see the forest for the trees. I say, don’t worry about the road ahead—pick up the manual! It worked for me. Read the Word; enter into a new phase of your life. It’s about level, Ladies, and some of us have been on level one forever. You are on the road trying to fix a broken down man that God never gave you in the first place and Mr. Right is standing by the limo with the door opened, looking at his watch wondering what is taking you so long. He’s waiting with open arms wondering when you’ll arrive. But you are over there trying to fix the peeling Chevy that needs a tune up and has so much mileage on it that it’s dangerous to drive.
The goal isn’t the journey, it’s the destination and the journey is unprofitable and you will never get there if you aren’t prepared. We have to believe His Word. It’s in there. His Word is our traveling food. It’s our nourishment when we are weak and feel like happiness will never find us. His Word sustains us. We need to be intelligent, stable and secure people of God before we seek anything other than God to join ourselves to, so, open up wide and eat the Word.
When we don’t deal with ourselves and the issues we have, we do a disservice to everybody we come in contact with. God’s grace is sufficient. He says that in 2 Corinthians 12:9. Let’s move forward under the grace of God then. How do you do that? You have to make God enough. Let God expose and deliver you from your issues. Only when you make God enough will He give you more. Some of us want a husband and we can’t cook a meal. Some of us want a big house and a pool and we can’t even remember to make up our bed in the morning. We are too stubborn to compromise or pick up a broom and sweep, and can’t pay a bill and never paid one in our lives. Yet we want God to take a man that can take care of himself and entrust him to us. We want God to just go down our wish list checking off our every hope and dream. For some women nothing is ever good enough because they don’t know what they want, and its unfair to put a man into the position of trying to figure out what you want when YOU don’t even know.
We can’t even figure out what side of the envelope the stamp goes on, yet we want more. That’s why God will not give it to you, because you can’t handle the little bit you have. And you will find that if you try to obtain it yourself it won’t last. I know. That’s what I did. Defiant. God told me I wouldn’t find anyone until I finished this book and got the entire revelation myself. But me being strong willed, to put it nicely, and hardheaded, to be honest, I put the book down and decided, “hey, I need somebody now. I don’t have time to sit around by myself.” I wasn’t delivered from wrong thinking. I hadn’t gotten my act fully together, but I thought I was ready when all I really was was needy. How long do you think that relationship that I defied God to rush into lasted? It didn’t.
Look at marriages disintegrating all over the place. Not just in Hollywood but on the church scene. Anointed gospel singers are caught up in divorce scandals. We have to learn to be prepared. Some of us rush into marriage knowing we have issues with compromise, and knowing we have a jealous streak. You wouldn’t go into an interview with sneakers and sweatpants, would you? If you did it would prove the interviewer that you couldn’t even get past the presentation and appearances part of the job. You’ll never get that job. You’ll never get more than what you have now because you don’t appear ready. You wouldn’t go off to war with a rubber band and a fork either, would you? It would show that you don’t have the faintest idea of what it takes to win a war or slay the enemy. We’ve got to get prepared.
Are you done trying to do it your way?
Do you want to learn to avoid the counterfeits?
Are you willing to let God make a change in you starting now?
Do you want to ready yourself to receive the one God prepared?
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June 12th, 2009 at 9:26 am
Thank you for the invitation to visit, Linda. The Plural Thing sounds like a must read.